Not their grades. Not their schedule. But what is actually going on inside their head — what they are afraid of, what they are carrying, what they wish they could tell you.
Talk to Meghana Help me build something to help your child. Just an honest conversation.Some days it is thin. Other days it feels permanent. You do not know if they are okay or just hiding it from you.
You say something and instantly wish you hadn't. You know the cycle. You just don't know how to stop it.
You push because you love them. But you don't know where care ends and damage begins. That uncertainty keeps you up at night.
Paris, 2022 — working abroad while battling severe clinical depression.
"I was an A+ student my whole life. I traced my clinical depression back to one thing — I had no identity outside of my marks."
Growing up, I believed that if I studied hard and got good marks, life would fall into place. And for a while, it did.
In 2018, I got into my dream university — ESSEC Business School — and moved to Singapore. And that's when everything I had built my identity on quietly began to collapse. Suddenly, marks didn't matter. What mattered was who you are. What you stand for. What your worldview is. And I realised I had no answer to any of those questions.
Clinical depression moved with me — through Singapore, France, Germany. It got worse with every year. Until it got so bad that I quit my job, came back to India, and took a career break just to focus on healing.
During that time, I ran a small workshop for children. A 5th standard girl had an anxiety attack right in front of me — terrified of letting her parents down over her exam marks.
This child was me, twenty years earlier. And nobody had caught it then either.
I am building The Connect Lab because I believe the answer starts not with the child — but with the relationship between the parent and the child. Before I build a single thing, I want to listen to parents like you.
— Meghana · Founder · Bangalore
A 20-minute conversation about your child — before I build anything.
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